Same isn’t equal. Fair is.
Equality may not mean sameness, but fairness has to account for load — not just preference. Domestic labor is rarely neutral; “who enjoys what” can easily hide who has been conditioned to carry what.
This is true! I have a similar post about how equality isn't just about identical treatment. ⚖️✨ https://substack.com/@externaliteas/note/c-244825169?r=7l805x&utm_source=notes-share-action&utm_medium=web
Keep up the good work, friend!
I love how you made a sensitive issue feel approachable and with a neutral lens.
Equality may not mean sameness, but fairness has to account for load — not just preference. Domestic labor is rarely neutral; “who enjoys what” can easily hide who has been conditioned to carry what.
This is true! I have a similar post about how equality isn't just about identical treatment. ⚖️✨ https://substack.com/@externaliteas/note/c-244825169?r=7l805x&utm_source=notes-share-action&utm_medium=web
Keep up the good work, friend!
I love how you made a sensitive issue feel approachable and with a neutral lens.